I was in a adult nursing relationship
with my wife before I even knew what it was. Unfortunately, it did
not last more than a few months. You see, growing up I was vary shy.
Even in my teenage years I was extremely shy. When someone started
talking about sex. I would leave.
Several years go by and I found a
wonderful woman who opened her heart to me. She seen right through my
shyness and helped my open up. We eventually got married and had a
child.
She had a hard time lactating and was
about to give up. We tried what seemed like all the natural
techniques including massages and pumping. I remembered seeing
something online saying, the more milk that we can express the easier
it will become.
So I convinced my wife to let me orally
extract the milk. After the baby was done of course. We finally had
success. This went on for several months. With it came added
benefits that I did not notice until it ended. There was peace in the
house. Working a stressful job seemed somewhat easier. My wife and I
were closer than ever before.
Then one day my wife decided to stop
breastfeeding the baby. Now I felt out of place. As much as I loved
that intimate time with her. I felt my purpose of being there was
gone. My shyness kicked in and I pulled away.
Shortly after, I began to notice
differences in our relationship and my stress levels at work seemed
to intensify.
About a year later I stumbled across a
site on adult breastfeeding relationships. It opened my eyes to
possibilities and I realized that my desire for my wife's breasts was
normal. The more I researched, the more I found. I became aware of
the reasons we became so close during that time but moved apart after
she stopped breastfeeding.
I wish I knew then what I know now. I
would have never pulled away and I would have found ways to make
things easier for her.
Most people who are in to ANR say it
has been a real blessing to there marriage.
Christian Adult Nursing Relationship
The ANR Truth
Understand the human male
